Growing a Child- Chapter 2

SECOND CHAPTER-

Thanks readers, for your interest and thanks for encourage me to write second chapter.

BIRTH CHILD.

> As discussed above to grow a child parents has to be a child.

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At the age of 2 year child pampered by parents and most grand father and mother. My opinion that in this age of time the child needs mother but most important child require their grand father and mother. Because they are very experienced to growing child. The way they grow that meter of love can't be measure.

But before leaving child with grands parents, be make sure they doesn't teach superstition (अन्धविश्वास) to kid. Because superstition (अन्धविश्वास) can take  place in child's mind badly, this age is the pick time to growth of child's mind. But superstition can stop it.

> If we took an example if a child going to moving dish as we heard in are childhood grand parents teach them that don't do that god will punish you, god will not give the food if you not respect.
> But if they can use to say with some pamper hand that " My kid don't do this it;s create bad noise and also we have to thank god for this food we have to respect it, it's a bad manner." How easy these lines are.

> Another example if child split somewhere grand parents teach them "don't do this if you do so, god will punish you, and raise a Thorn in your hand."
> But if they teach child like "My kid don't split out anywhere, we have to keep are city clean and neat. and show them an example that 'elders who eat Tobacco they split over and how bad it look's like?, make them realize that  It's not looks good.' And we are from good family, it doesn't s suits on us." How easy and manageable to understand this sentence.

So, always keep distance between a Growing child and Superstition (अन्धविश्वास). It's badly effect child's thoughts, their drems and maybe their mind can be limited in future. As i seen an example of it a child who grow in the environment of superstition can stop him every movement, before taking any decision in elder age can prevent him, At the elder age child can loose his/her confidence.
(Like if i do this thing at this way than it can be happen this way, this is not the right way, if i do so something bad can happen and all.)

After failing for the 1st time if Thomas Edison's mother ask him that "Son don't do this, god don't want that you to go against them and inventing which can give a light like sun. God created only sun to produce light, if you do it god will fry you in pan with cooking oil???"

For now i am limiting my words here because when i start reading books i always fill sleepy so i am dividing my topics in small chapter so we can enjoy it. I will post next blog soon with next chapter and will meet next part of life with what is good for a growing kid.

Thanks for your time, your valuable feedback will be accepted.
Until than be happy and stay safe.


Warm Regards
Dhruv N Patel.

Growing a Child- Chapter 1

FIRST CHAPTER-

CHILD BORN

> I am giving this words how to growing child in my point of view. I also gather some points from my resources. This is my First Blog.

When a child born, He/She doesn't know, what is life all about? But as growing day by day He/She understand what is going on here. And how to deal with routine. It's all up-to us how we make our child's life, How we treat him.

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In india when a lady get pregnant she get prisoned as she limit her contact, hiding behind doors, not able to live life joyfully, All the Time only BHAGVAT GEETA & GOD. Even sometime she says "god save me." The name of god is important but not enough that after 9 months she give birth to a saint.

As we all know child start learning things what's going on outside when child is in her mother's bag and counting down to come-out. So Locking doors is not solution the lady has to fill like she is going to doing something never before, something adventurous for her. And it can only be possible if her mother-in-law wants. That's Embarrassing for us.

So families start give Independence to the mother not only concentrate on her food made from 'DESI GHEE' and thinking about to protect her from bad eyes.

So show courage, be kind and genuine to women Because new come child depend on the women that how she suffer 9 months, We live in 21st century.

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Most of families synchronize child's first month in a locked room. Even child mother treated like she done a job that she get prisoned. Here I am clearing that my words are not pointing a Religion or not pointing any Culture. But after seeing many cases, I humbly felt bad for the lady.

>We can understand child need some safe environment after birth but why his/her mother suffer from it?

>Why she can't even touch anything in home and prisoned behind the doors?

I am only saying here that "child start learning and felting to hurting someone from this rude behavior for his/her mother. Child also get hurt when mother get disappointed sometime.

So We have to clear the second step of child. and even help her mom to re-build the good image of her own in her mind that she didn't made any mistake to give a birth. And only learn a child from the first day that be courage and king no matter how tough the situation is.

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When child getting older and older they are getting worse. Oops i mean in the seance of annoying from their naughtiness. Like they are not easily listening to anyone. They are annoying to everyone from their kind arguments. But we never try to know why they argue. They argue because they don't know what the world is all about? No rules for them. BUT we are making boundary on their limits of thinking or thoughts, we have no idea that how far they can think in this smaller age, because their mind is fresh to use for it. Always support kid to build something new. Never shout on them because if they capture that you are shouting on them all the time and scolding on them, so they will never try to understand you, they will only ignore you and it will hurt you in future.

So, i am suggesting you that to treat the child, be the child when you are growing a child. Always give some interesting and innovative food to them and they will also invent something new in the future in dishes who knows he/she can became the ' chef '.

BE A VISIONARY FOR THE KID. HOLD HANDS AND SUPPORT IN THIS PERIOD OF LIFE.

Here i am limiting my words i will post next chapter soon. Thanks for reading my blog, appreciate you time. please apology if there is any kind of grammar or spelling mistake.

Thanks. Be happy and safe. I will shortly post my next blog with next chapter.