Tuesday, June 9, 2015

Growing a Child- Chapter 2

SECOND CHAPTER-

Thanks readers, for your interest and thanks for encourage me to write second chapter.

BIRTH CHILD.

As discussed above to grow a child parents has to be a child.

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At the age of 2 year child pampered by parents and most grand father and mother. My opinion that in this age of time the child needs mother but most important child require their grand father and mother. Because they are very experienced to growing child. The way they grow that meter of love can't be measure.

But before leaving child with grands parents, be make sure they doesn't teach superstition (अन्धविश्वास) to kid. Because superstition (अन्धविश्वास) can take  place in child's mind badly, this age is the pick time to growth of child's mind. But superstition can stop it.

> If we took an example if a child going to moving dish as we heard in are childhood grand parents teach them that don't do that god will punish you, god will not give the food if you not respect.
> But if they can use to say with some pamper hand that " My kid don't do this it;s create bad noise and also we have to thank god for this food we have to respect it, it's a bad manner." How easy these lines are.

> Another example if child split somewhere grand parents teach them "don't do this if you do so, god will punish you, and raise a Thorn in your hand."
> But if they teach child like "My kid don't split out anywhere, we have to keep are city clean and neat. and show them an example that 'elders who eat Tobacco they split over and how bad it look's like?, make them realize that  It's not looks good.' And we are from good family, it doesn't s suits on us." How easy and manageable to understand this sentence.

So, always keep distance between a Growing child and Superstition (अन्धविश्वास). It's badly effect child's thoughts, their drems and maybe their mind can be limited in future. As i seen an example of it a child who grow in the environment of superstition can stop him every movement, before taking any decision in elder age can prevent him, At the elder age child can loose his/her confidence.
(Like if i do this thing at this way than it can be happen this way, this is not the right way, if i do so something bad can happen and all.)

After failing for the 1st time if Thomas Edison's mother ask him that "Son don't do this, god don't want that you to go against them and inventing which can give a light like sun. God created only sun to produce light, if you do it god will fry you in pan with cooking oil???"

For now i am limiting my words here because when i start reading books i always fill sleepy so i am dividing my topics in small chapter so we can enjoy it. I will post next blog soon with next chapter and will meet next part of life with what is good for a growing kid.

Thanks for your time, your valuable feedback will be accepted.
Until than be happy and stay safe.


Warm Regards
Dhruv N Patel.

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